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Discussion Suggestion:

When you're in a group discussion, like Eros class, you should be careful aout making your statements sound personal. Say, instance, we're talking about whether bottoms should or should not do a particular task. If you say "well, if your bottom doesn't do it, you should get another, 'cause my bottom does that and much more," that sounds personal. You have just told someone that someone they care about is deficient. Not a good way to make friends and influence people.

If you just changed it to "well, its something I require, and my bottom does that and more..." nobody would think you're bagging on their bottom. You're just bragging on your own, which is not only acceptable, but expected.

Usually you are not meaning anyone in particular; its a generic "you." But that generic "you" can get you in trouble in speaking, just like it can in posts on the internet. And I just hate seeing people piss folks off when I'm pretty sure that was not their intent.