tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63072472009-08-03T08:34:31.800-07:00Houston Eros BLOGCurrent Events of the Houston BDSM Club Erotic Rose Society (EROS)Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-7151290447715566452009-08-03T08:00:00.000-07:002009-08-03T08:34:31.811-07:00I did want to address one thing--outting. People have a confused notion of what outting is and what it's all about.The whole idea is designed to protect scene people from getting into trouble with their vanilla life because of their participation in our kinky lifestyle.To protect our scene life from our vanilla life.It's not to protect your anonimity at a party--anyone who saw you knows who you Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-17476102358084142032009-08-03T07:58:00.000-07:002009-08-03T08:00:10.330-07:00Hey, we're still here. Just busy doing stuff, and having no time to write about it. But I'm working on that.ClayClayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-68726021714792440922008-01-29T15:00:00.000-08:002008-01-29T15:13:27.372-08:00Electric Staple Gun Demo by Master Jim and slave marsha The first thing that was highly emphasized was that this is not a sterile form of play. The staples cannot be sterilized nor can the staple gun. The staples can be disinfected to a point and the gun can be cleaned, to a point. It was also highly recommended that the person receiving the staples update their tetnus shot.Folks with Rubyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10335630933714669477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-45579963030631943442007-06-25T07:17:00.001-07:002007-06-25T07:22:08.596-07:00Last Saturday, MissK presented a class on blood play. Here's her summary of the class:Bloodkink : The Little Red TabooOk, so who has not cut themselves with a kitchen knife, gotten a papercut, been pricked by a thorn, or had blood drawn by the local vampire…erm.. I mean nurse? Now there are some that pass out at the sight of blood, but for majority of us we slap a band-aid on it, curse a bit, andClayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1175703546818717032007-04-04T09:11:00.000-07:002007-04-04T11:59:47.576-07:00This last weekend we went Kinky Kamping in the woods - its a secluded private camping ground near to Bastrop. Around 25 of us were roaming around in various states of nakedness, enjoying all that the camp ground had to offer. Theres a fenced in play area complete with Dungeon equipment, a warm outdoor shower, and plenty of fire pits.Most of us arrived on Friday, setup our camps and had a lovely boy nickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08507821186213439741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1163010386557413302006-11-08T10:07:00.000-08:002006-11-08T10:26:26.583-08:00Last Saturday, MissK presented "The Voodo That You Do," a class on D/s rituals. She said that one critical element of a ritual is that it must be enforced, otherwise its a service or a habit.For example, if your submissive always calls you "Sir," that is a sign of respect. If he/she is punished for failing to call you "Sir," that is a ritual.The other requirement is that the action must be Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1161014443753875902006-10-16T08:51:00.000-07:002006-10-16T09:00:43.766-07:00Stephen led us this Saturday to continue the discussion on polyamory that has been raging across the yahoogroup this week.Since you've been hearing it all week, I'm not gonna rehash the discussion, but it was lively, with lots of different ideas of what poly is, and how tough it is to achieve. But, I think everyone got their opinion represented, and gained some understanding of how others look atClayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1155939553076655622006-08-18T12:20:00.000-07:002006-08-18T15:19:13.110-07:00Stephen handled class admirably again this week, although moving away from the blowjob arena, we instead jumped into the delights of the MindF*k!We tried to define the different types of it : One abstract look was expecting one thing and getting another - like intending to brand someone and then while a blindfold is on, using an ice cube. Mostly this idea was about the Top fooling the boy nickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08507821186213439741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1155068193388107862006-08-08T13:06:00.000-07:002006-08-08T13:16:33.413-07:00Well, Stephen handled class last Saturday, and they apparently had an interesting discussion. Warning: the discussion went into some pretty extreme behaviors--extreme enough that they've never been seen in Houston, as far as I know.Alright, you've had your warning! Now, here's Stephen's notes on class:This week we continued a discussion that started online as “Acts of Submission.”The class Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1154546541026038862006-08-02T12:00:00.000-07:002006-08-02T12:22:21.053-07:00Saturday's class was about fear. A fair portion of the bottoms admitted to being fear junkies--folks that love to be scared. We discussed the difficulties of scaring someone who has developed trust in you as a top, and found there are ways to add a certain fear factor to the play.Visuals are good -- things like laying out the toys that will at least potentially be used. Contemplative looks at a Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1145977771614331422006-04-25T08:06:00.000-07:002006-04-25T08:09:31.630-07:00Wow! It's really been a while since I posted anything to the blog. Sorry 'bout that, but we tend to stay busy.Eros is still alive and thriving. In addition to our normal parties twice a month, we all went camping last month up toward Austin. Sixty or seventy perverts out in the woods, in a campground that had only us in it. You can imagine. :-)ClayClayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1132713651365112072005-11-22T18:40:00.000-08:002005-11-22T18:40:51.426-08:00 Haven't posted in awhile, but there has certainly been alot going on. Everyone here is slow to post what has happened recently because we are to busy having a good time. The Halloween party is the largest party that is thrown all year. We have had several parties since, but people are still talking about the giant Halloween party. There were Halloween decorations everywhere! Every single room SKJamesTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1123714759434752742005-08-10T15:48:00.000-07:002005-08-10T15:59:19.440-07:00Have had a little computer trouble lately... Haven't posted for awhile. Don't think that it means that we haven't been having a good time. We do so much in real time that getting to the computer stuff can be difficult. We are always having a good time and don't always have time to update everything. In the works are a camping trip, several parties (one this weekend), and maybe a dance and an SKJamesTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1120612221487724802005-07-05T18:08:00.000-07:002005-07-05T18:10:21.490-07:00We had a rocking July 4th, although it wasn't an official EROS event. We had a Jam Session, with musicians in the front of the house, and the hard-core perverts either watching incredibly nasty porn on the big-ass TV or indulging in their nastiness in the back of the house.So...something for everybody!Hope you had a happy Fourth, cuz we sure did!ClayClayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1120148107173513402005-06-30T09:11:00.000-07:002005-06-30T09:15:07.176-07:00Just an update, to let you know we're still around. We've just been busy with meetings, parties, and the occasional outing to a local bar.Fifth Angel was here a few weeks ago, and that was a good time. He's a very creative sort, doing pressure point demos, medical play, and hook suspensions. Nice guy, with a nice slave, leslie.Anyway, we still meet at Rudyards Pub every Saturday, starting at 12:Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1113430014574657132005-04-13T15:04:00.000-07:002005-04-13T15:06:54.573-07:00Whoa, things have been busy, with the S&M Ball and all. I won't try to fill you in on everything, but we did have an interesting class last Saturday. The title was "What is important to know about the Scene?" especially for new folks. The high lights that I can recall were:--dont' be in a hurry. Take your time and be sure its what you want to do--it really won't go away before you get your Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1108403573734363622005-02-14T09:52:00.000-08:002005-02-14T09:52:53.733-08:00Discussion Suggestion:
When you're in a group discussion, like Eros class, you should be careful aout making your statements sound personal. Say, instance, we're talking about whether bottoms should or should not do a particular task. If you say "well, if your bottom doesn't do it, you should get another, 'cause my bottom does that and much more," that sounds personal. You have just told someoneClayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1108403137114328292005-02-14T09:45:00.000-08:002005-02-14T09:45:37.113-08:00Well, we had a good class on Saturday. The topic was "who has the best deal, tops or bottoms?" It was a good discussion, but didn't go exactly as I figured it would.
Everybody pretty much (and predictably) said that whatever your side of the slash would seem best to you. But I was surprised that nobody noted that the top puts lots of effort into a scene, while the bottom is basically receiving, Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1107810946021053052005-02-07T13:15:00.000-08:002005-02-07T13:15:46.020-08:00Well, we had a non-official Superbowl party on Sunday. There were about 25 of us die-hard sports fans in attendance. Harump, we were so die-hard not a soul noticed that I had the time wrong for the game. But we scrambled a bit at the last minute, and made it work.
It gave me a chance to show off my new toy. No, not something kinky this time; a foosball table. I was pleasantly surprised at how Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1107445581268439312005-02-03T07:46:00.000-08:002005-02-03T07:46:21.266-08:00Last weekend, we had a special guest. Jack Rinella, in town for the Open Door meeting (and you-know-who's Dark Party), came to class and discussed long term relationships.
We had a good class and a good time, and saw him again later in the evening at the party.Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1105142936270982402005-01-07T16:03:00.000-08:002005-01-07T16:16:31.826-08:00We have been having great parties every two weeks, but the New Year's party was the greatest party EROS has had in a long time.
The New Year's party included a fireworks extravaganza, a 25 foot giant dome tent in the backyard, every kind of drink imaginable, more food than anyone could imagine, and all sorts of kinky play. EROS will continue having fantastic parties every two weeks. If you don't SKJamesTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1099969570865488492004-11-08T19:02:00.000-08:002004-11-08T19:10:39.680-08:00Below is what Bill posted on the "EROS list" about the class on collars. EROS has a class every week, even if we get busy and forget to post about it. The only exception this year will be the December 25 (Christmas) and January 1 (New Years).
Bill wrote:
The meeting at Rudyards on Saturday was on "Collars". This was a great meeting, Clay! Thanks for selecting it. This was a topic I had not heardSKJamesTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1099925634685311872004-11-08T06:53:00.000-08:002004-11-08T06:53:54.686-08:00Saturday's class was on "Collars." We talked about the different sorts of collars, like collars of consideration, protection, training, etc., and how wearing a collar affects the way you are treated. We talked about how it changes the way you approach someone, and about the owner's expectations, too.
Came out a good class, with lots of participation.
Coming up in the near future is a Pony Play Clayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08237998719536364489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1099613769058987172004-11-04T17:56:00.000-08:002004-11-04T16:16:09.086-08:00Much has been keeping us busy and from posting here.
October 23 was the EROS costume party at Jean and Clay's house. There were hundreds of costumes, decorations everywhere, and more food than you can eat. This was the biggest of the EROS house parties for the year, and very popular among long term members.
October 30 was the first EROS party at a public location. The Halloween party at club GoSKJamesTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6307247.post-1096948875862916872004-10-04T20:58:00.000-07:002004-10-04T21:01:15.863-07:00Great class on Oct. 2 about negotiating. How to negotiate a scene, a D/s relationship, or what people are ready to try.
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